August 19

Me and My Bent Nose


Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord: looking carefully lest any one fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled….

Hebrews 12:14-15 (NKJV)

Therefore I , a prisoner for serving the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God. Be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Always keep yourselves united in the Holy Spirit, and bind yourselves together with peace.

Ephesians 4:1-3 (NLT)


I got off the phone, and my wife asked me what was going on. She heard it in my voice and knew something was wrong.

I was stinging from what felt like a verbal double-blast. I had placed a call for help, and instead of getting help, I was receiving an assignment—one I didn’t need or want!

But as time and Spirit allow, I look back from the other side now and see how I overwhelmed my brother with my request. In the process of seeking help, I spun him up on his most pressing need. You see, he needed help too, but I was so singularly focused, I didn’t want to hear it.

It seemed a hard lesson, but I understand. Different thoughts from a different person should not be handled with indifference. I hope I do better from now on.

I’ve extended the olive branch, and I will continue to offer it. My brother is worth it—in spite of different views and interests.

Time is too short, and Christ’s kingdom is too important to be chiseling at its walls.


Lord, thank You for our needs. Help us to find answers. Help me be more concerned with others needs and less with my own. Amen.